Hello, children. Are you ready for a scary story? It is called ‘The Box’.
I am looking at a box. Considering. I must move this box.
The surrounding silence breathes its barren understanding of how I deeply, painfully, desperately need to leave. Leave this hallway, this house, this emptiness.
The need. It’s all focused in my arms. I slide my fingertips, allowing them to settle along the cardboard edges. Now I’m straightening my shoulders. I’m breathing from my belly and bracing my stance, knowing it must be done now. No one remains to say ‘stay’ or to urge, ‘go!’ There is only me and this box. And the heaviness threatening to collapse me if I fail to take action.
So I palm the solid surface of the hallway table. It's the last object in existence, besides me...and the box. My fingertips nestle into either side of the box, exploring the edge. There is give, only slightly, at the base. The box itself is nothing to its vital contents. The resolute solidity is a reminder that I myself must be resolved in the moment I take on its weight. I will master this box, and in doing so, preserve the residue of my existence. All that results from this moment will rest inevitably on these shoulders.
I stop thinking. I move with the fire of decision and of need, shoulders bearing, arms seizing, grasp firm. I am escaping loneliness; the failures of my past. I obtain the doorway, that opening into elsewhere. Quickly felt, the weight numbs my fingers, tries my back, heavier than any thing could have a right to be. A step or two more and I lock up; I falter. Desperately, I am clasping fingers, the sides of my arms straining toward one another, my stem stretching upward.
I can’t have failed. Yes, my grip breaks. My frame buckles. I stumble. Before I can wish to retain my load from an uncontrolled tumble, it rests immutable on the ground. Bones awaken to a sudden sharpness and despair. It has crushed down on my foot.
I took this on in folly, in my hubris. To resist nothingness, I had made out this hopeless act to be everything. Yet here I stand, unmoving for pain and anger at my own mistake. For bearing my load and failing had always been my greatest fear. Yet I made myself try. I should have known action alone could not save me from myself. I simply am, devoid of purpose in a disburdened home.
I alone remain. And I own the blame. Because I made myself and I put myself in a box.
Why ‘The Box’? One day I was mesmerized by a thought: What would it be like if a person insisted on staying the same in every way while the whole world changed around them?
This person embodies the ‘mid-life crisis’. Their nest is empty, their relationships dissolved. Their self-image is all that remains. They manifest the intangible concept of Self as they are ejected from their idealized life.
The question I am left with is when did this box become so important? Was it always a cardboard box, or did it begin as a childhood toy chest? Did it grow to the size of their first apartment? Their first house, purchased with their new spouse, filled with cute memories and modern furniture? Hmm…
Will this happen to me one day? Is my identity built on an ideal (like my home, or my relationship, or my job)? Is it possible not to become boxed in? Can anyone avoid that shrinking, unnatural, tragic metaphorical box?
The Box is a fear of freedom. I’m reminded of how I cried watching Elsa sing ‘Let It Go’ in the theatres. Something broke inside me – or, probably, it had always been broken, just stored away and forgotten. So it’s not just ice queens and empty-nesters who need this reminder. Free yourself.
2022 is the year of Percy Jackson! Production has begun for the PJO Disney+ series. The ‘Riordanverse’ is alive with anticipation. But, wait! I promise not to only blog about that! I really, really believe I can talk about other books, too. 😅
*Questions altered from last year’s tag!
Best book you’ve read so far in 2022
Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell
I found this sweet gem while looking for a funny, honest, relatable story! What could be more relatable to a fangirl like myself than Cath, an anxious young woman with trust issues and an obsession with fictional characters that exceeds all else?
Like a ninja, Cath slips into advanced writing classes. Also like a ninja, she manages to avoid making new friends – especially with her surly college roommate. Oh well, she has thousands of people depending on her to post Simon Snow fan fiction! No doubt Cath’s new peers would judge her for this, as does her twin, Ren. Or, is she also a ninja at hiding from the truth?
Favorite new (to me) author
How excellent is this? I’m almost wordless. ‘Fangirl’ is a YA novel about transitioning to college and independence. Cath, a creative, anxious introvert, is my new best friend. Rainbow is my new idol! She writes with an adoration for language! She writes worlds within worlds. Super-imposed realities.
I’m expecting to stay in a contemporary YA mood for a few more weeks…maybe months. Library audiobooks FTW! After Fangirl, I’m waiting on Eleanor & Park, then Carry On and the rest of the Simon Snow series! 😆
Newest favorite character
Magnus lives life in heightened awareness of dangers to his soft heart. His senses are just different to those of others. He’s deeply empathetic. Once Magnus Chase is your friend you will never feel alone.
This is the first character in the Riordanverse I deeply identify with, surprisingly enough. He’s a blonde male teen, sure, but who cares? Maybe I’m also a child of a Norse god! ☺️
Best sequel you’ve read so far in 2022
The Ship of the Dead (Magnus Chase and the Gods of Asgard #3)
Ahhhhh! I keep going back to read favorite moments! So many epic moments are hilarious while also plumbing the depths of emotion. I love everyone. What are side characters? Character growth for everyone!
Too, the worlds never disappoint! Riordan invites us into worlds of Valkyries, Elves, Dwarfs, Giants, and those awkward humans. Don’t forget the pop culture references. Thor is not the Thor of Marvel movies, and is Taylor Swift human or elf?! 😲
Book that made you happy
The Son of Neptune (Heroes of Olympus #2)
Three of a kind, these questers bring me joy! First, there’s Percy. He’s a sassy hero, even when out of his element. Frank Zhang and Hazel Levesque lead the way to Alaska. They are the two softest, squishiest cuties of Camp Jupiter – but powerful enough to impress Percy. Do not underestimate!
The Mark Of Athena (Heroes of Olympus #3)
I didn’t realize before how much of this series is written around romantic attachments! It’s clear to me now why the relationships seem stunted. Is any conflict resolved, really? Or am I just told that it is?
Don’t worry, I still love Percabeth. I just wish that the switching between POVs was more purposeful. And can we not with love triangles ever again? 😬
The House Of Hades (Heroes of Olympus #4)
Trauma-driven character development is disappointing. I’ve heard it said that a certain side character’s *traumatic experience* should have been written from their own POV. From another POV, the narrative came across exploitive at worse, pointless at best. This series is lacking that friendship and teamwork that Riordan developed gradually throughout Percy Jackson and the Olympians.
Favorite fictional friendship*
Aza Holmes and Daisy
These two. Daisy surprised me by showing up for Aza in ways that indicate maturity and emotional intelligence. I appreciated the security of their friendship, even while tough issues (like finances and health) challenged their bond. Also, ‘Holmsey’ is the sweetest nickname!
Book that made you cry
Solitaire by Alice Oseman
Solitaire played at cute then gutted me with jabs of emotion. The pacing is real strange. There’s a lot left unresolved.
But the mysterious entity ‘Solitaire’ is genuinely my favorite thing! Solitaire is breeding rebellion using flashes of music and tech sabotage. It’s stupid. That’s not how people communicate – or, wait, is it? Whoever Solitaire is, they’re communicating the way they know how and it’s futile. I. Feel. This. 😭
It was depressing. Maybe don’t read it if you’re already in a crisis, okay? #selfcare
Best Audiobook Production*
Simon Vs The Homo Sapien Agenda by Becky Abertalli
Production value 10/10! Simon is funny, kind and earnest – as is the performance of this sweet teen romance. It’s impossible not to relate as a former teenager who had to deal with cliques and hormones and family drama. And actual drama. #theatrenerds
It’s interesting to read a teen drama where the main character is aware of their own privilege, actively struggling to connect. The arc follows Simon as a friend/son/brother becoming a kinder and more self-accepting person (humor intact!)
Simon’s voice is unique. Even if he swears a lot (which I usually hate), I still wish the heroes in Heroes Of Olympus felt more like this.
Didn’t live up to the hype*
The Red Pyramid (The Kane Chronicles #1) by Rick Riordan
This is now the only series in the Riordanverse I’ve not yet read. It’s been slow going, even though I love Ancient Egypt stuff and I had just enjoyed Moon Knight! Maybe book 2 gets better. I just keep forgetting about Carter and Sadie. Sigh. But I won’t give up on them.
New release you haven’t read yet, but want to read
Book Lovers by Emily Henry (Published May 2022)
It would be a meet-cute if not for the fact that they’ve met many times and it’s never been cute. If Nora knows she’s not an ideal heroine, Charlie knows he’s no hero, but as they are thrown together again and again—in a series of coincidences no editor worth their salt would allow—what they discover might just unravel the carefully crafted stories they’ve written about themselves.
From Goodreads, book description – Book Lovers, Emily Henry
Could this read any cuter? If I could pour it directly into my brain I would. (And it’s not even YA.)
Favorite book to screen adaptation you’ve seen this year?
Heartstopper. Duh. It’s YA heaven! And the soundtrack. Gah! I don’t even really want to read the Heartstopper graphic novels. Am I weird?! I read the sort-of sequel, Solitaire. But I’d prefer to wait for season two on Netflix to actually see the characters again. I love the Scott Pilgrim film but never tried to read those graphic novels, either. I just haven’t. 😅
What books do you need to read by the end of the year?
With Club Austen I am reading this Matt Haig novel with weekly discussions. It’s a journey!
The Midnight Library – Matt Haig
Of course, I won’t stop reading Heroes of Olympus. I love the final book in this series, so much.
The Blood Of Olympus (Heroes of Olympus #5) – Riordan
And for Jane Austen July…I’d like to try Sanditon, although which version to choose?
The Kane Chronicles trilogy – Riordan
This Rainbow Rowell audiobook is loaded up. Do your worst, Rowell! 😭
Eleanor & Park – Rainbow Rowell
Whew. And now: back to following Percy Jackson Fan Art on Instagram. You know where to find me! #fangirling
I’m a passive poet. I feel the feelings, form a few words. Some of them camp out in my notes for weeks – months – before I complete the verses. The longest time I’ve taken to finish a poem is, to date, 21 months.
It’s completed today! My journey has reached a milestone to be marked by sharing a poem. This poem is the culmination of pain and progress. It is called See Me.
Not asking the world to change How it's going to see me Not asking the earth to move Just hoping that you'll reach me
Glad of being alone Uncertain where I belong Aching for kindred voices Harmony without a song
Not asking the world to change How it thinks I should be Not making too much noise Just hoping for room to breathe
Training my ears to listen For notes never before heard Song fills the space between us Compassion behind your words
I'm asking the world to hear The value in what I think Not asking you to care Just claiming the right to sing
Breathe in deep and shout Saved up enough hope to try Tearing through my world removed There's pain in living a lie
I am asking the world to change How it's trying to see me The earth doesn't need to move For voices to ring out freely.
Robyn S. June 3, 2022
Different brains. Different bodies. Our oppressed. Our marginalized. Our people.
Take your time to get there. Then use your unique voice for truth.
About this poem
Sometimes I don’t even know who I am reaching out to – I just hope someone will hear and understand. I pray into the night that I won’t give up on speaking. A weakened voice is still a voice. ‘See me.’
I always have enough strength to try my voice again. Maybe the person doesn’t speak my language. Maybe they expect me to speak theirs. Maybe they silence me, refusing to hear. A perspective is like a musical style. An acquired taste. Let’s not miss out on greatness! 😉
We are halfway through May! How are things, so far? Are you escaping into fiction, as I am, for a little relief from the instability of the world?
This month, I practiced discontinuing books that are not for me. Can you do it? It’s hard! Since I wanted to read books related to mental health, it was especially important to notice if the subject became harmful to my well-being. Anyway, I’m proud to announce that I read one whole book related to mental health!
“I don’t mind worriers,” I said. “Worrying is the correct worldview. Life is worrisome.”
Turtles All The Way Down
I am also proud to say this was my first John Green novel! (No, I haven’t seen the movies either, and no, I probably won’t.) It was EVERYTHING I needed! I want to gush, but I’ll do one better – a list.
The main character has an ongoing mental health struggle
Mental illness is not Aza Holmes’ entire personality.
Aza is already being treated. She has a realistic relationship with a mental health professional, with a positive portrayal of clinical support. 👏👏👏
Relationships don’t pause for mental health, they re-route.
The effects of illness are not downplayed to seem less horrifying.
Aza’s thoughts drag us through a harrowing loop of doubt and pain. Yet we never judge her or get annoyed with the illogical bits. We can relate to the humanness of her fight, even if the struggle is beyond our own experience.
John Green has lived through his own mental health journey. It’s so important to amplify the voices of experience for mental health awareness.
‘I wanted to tell her that I was getting better, because that was supposed to be the narrative of illness: It was a hurdle you jumped over, or a battle you won. Illness is a story told in the past tense.’
In Aza, we find an intelligent teen with witty humor, determined to hold her life together. She chats with her friends, jokes with her mom, watches TV, and studies with admirable motivation. Anxiety is constant through it all. Functioning at life doesn’t mean she’s okay.
Aza’s thoughts were like a balm to me. Chaotic, sure. But the spiral out of control was familiar. It is comforting to know other people experience anxiety too. It’s quite rare to read from the perspective of a character who battles mental illness and feels like a real person.
Daisy surprised me constantly by showing up for Aza in ways that indicate maturity and emotional intelligence. Then again, these qualities are transferable from being a viral Star Wars fan fiction author!
Mrs. Holmes allows Aza space to be her independent self, even whilst worrying constantly (as a parent should). The trust in these relationships feels real, and worth fighting for as conflict unfurls.
Why Read It?
First of all, this book was lovely. I mean, the unapologetic nerdiness was glorious! The plot subverted all my expectations for a contemporary Young Adult novel! The mystery, the complexity of the relationships, and, above all, the hope instilled in this adventure made it an incomparable experience. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Why read mental health lit?
‘Anybody can look at you. It’s quite rare to find someone who sees the same world you see.’
A book should introduce me to a foreign perspective. I want to feel shaken from my assumptions. I want a book that helps me consciously stop and consider with compassion before assuming I understand someone’s experience.
To summarize, I want a book that respects mental health. Mental illness is not some plot device or lazy, trauma-fueled character development. When realistic experiences are incorporated into a work of art, the story becomes one of humanity’s struggle, unifying and cathartic. ‘Turtles All The Way Down’ holds up a message of hope: Being human isn’t a linear experience, but it is worthwhile!
For a long time it seemed life had only one path forward. The Fight.
What I did not realize was that there were other people on earth who would understand. Trusting other people with my fight unleashed more hope. With hope, opportunities. There were innumerable ways we could fight together.
Anyway, this is a poem I wrote in 2018 and revised. I decided to share it for Mental Health Awareness Week in Canada. If you can relate, I hope you feel less alone.
Do not share my poem without permission. Thank you. 💚
They tell me, 'Breathe' 'Calm down', 'Be bold' They see a world Without threat 'Where is the beast?'
Without The Fight Where is hope? Without hope To defeat the beast What is my life?
I fight without friends Without needing care And yet, you do care Without even knowing Where my fight ends
You know what I've done Without giving up Where have I ended up? With my hope in closed doors Hidden from the sun
Is anyone out there alive? We could break out, unite While this prison is my right Walls won't deter me- We need light to survive.
The theme: Accept help.
Because human connection is a type of hope, I am willing to team up, to fight differently. Walling off isn’t giving up. Accepting help isn’t giving up. 🖤
Stay strong. Thank you for reading! #MentalHealthAwareness #MentalHealthIsHealth #SickNotWeak
When I was 4 years old, the kindergarten teacher Frank approached me on the playground. He gazed up, up, up. He smiled and said, “What are you doing up there, Robyn?”
It was a valid question. Why might a child abscond from the herd of children—the implied boundary of the play area—to ascend far above? I didn’t have the words to form a reason.
Was I scared, hiding? No. I wasn’t unhappy, perched like a monkey at the apex of a metal rainbow meant for bigger kids to swing upon. I had found distance there, softened sound. From a distance, the seeming chaos of running, swinging and shouting was reduced to an interesting, complex pattern.
A weakness is an opportunity to test and change oneself. Some say “I shouldn’t” but my favorite question is “why shouldn’t I?” Climb, try, stand up, speak up.
In middle school, I frequently isolated myself while recovering from—or preparing for—sensory overload. Why shouldn’t I be productive with that time? At the age of 13 my balance and coordination were lacking. I tripped – a lot! So, why not walk the wooden borders to the school grounds as practice? Those early mornings before the first bell, I chuckled softly when I could only manage a few steps before my feet slipped off the beam.
Eventually my balance had improved enough that the low beam was boring. Nearby, there was a sort of ladder made up of wooden beams, meant for climbing over. I thought, if I can walk a beam on the ground, I can walk one up there! Why shouldn’t I? So I did. The difficult part was standing upright once I reached the topmost beam. Slowly extending my legs, I took four momentous steps and sprung away to land evenly on my feet. And I thought with a smile, “There, that’s done.”
Being looked down upon is incontestably stressful. As the smallest kid in kindergarten, I had had to look up at the faces of my peers. The tallest girl would pat my head and call me Fluffball. I didn’t care about being small, but somehow I knew I was missing something more important than stature—perspective.
A different perspective can be a good thing, however! I gradually realized that I was handling the ascent into adulthood differently, if not better, than some of my peers. Over the years, a handful of individuals would seek me out—vulnerable, heads hanging low—to tell me their fears and secrets. It was baffling. But I sensed I had been chosen, not for what I could say, but for what I wouldn’t say. I listened. In my world, everyone deserved notice. Somehow they knew I’d let them give voice to their pain.
There is a soothing power in removing oneself from the world. Gazing from my second story bedroom window seat, I could sway with the wind in the multitudinous branches, at home in my head.
When The Night Feels My Song
Environmental changes are especially significant for a sensitive teen. Throughout six years of Elementary school, three years of Middle school, then four years of Secondary school, kids contend with all sorts of changes. By the time I was sixteen, my family had moved into town, I’d started at my new school, and my new retreat had become music. The opposite of emotionless silence. The opposite of wind in the trees. My new bedroom had a stereo and speakers, and a ground floor window without a view.
As I struggled to acclimate, I fixated on my radio. (We 90s kids didn’t have iPods.) Losing myself in lyrics helped me deal with the alternating numbness and pain from the seemingly constant stress that had me sinking, sinking, sinking.
I was sixteen, obsessed with rock music, and finding that several hours within school walls grounded me to an uncomfortable extent. Music between classes, before and after school, and into the night could never fully return me to myself before the next day’s assault would begin anew. Anxiety held me in its grasp.
I had always found a way around weakness. What was the way around it this time? As in kindergarten, I found once again I lacked an understanding that everyone else seemed to enjoy. Was I ill-equipped for life? Why was I swimming with sardines when I was not a fish? I was angry and awed by their unity. Meanwhile, I was dying for oxygen.
The worst part of the whole experience was I had forgotten myself. Unfamiliar surroundings had distracted me so completely I forgot that I had eyes and feet and the strength to climb. I struggled in vain to follow the crowd. I forgot to ask, why shouldn’t I be happy?
To my horror, my brain could not keep up with the tenth grade classes I’d signed up for. In defeat, I met with the guidance counsellor to rework my schedule. I also quit drumming with the school band because the class had been a disorganized waste of time. I had no idea what I’d prefer to do. My options were limited, anyway. I grudgingly signed up for tenth grade Drama class.
From the raised seats of the auditorium I could survey the foreign environment. The mysteriousness of a tall-curtained stage, waxed to a gleam. A scattering of tenth graders, in various states of sociability. Maybe…maybe the next part of my story wouldn’t be so very bad.
Why shouldn’t I find friends? Why shouldn’t I perform a monologue? Why shouldn’t I enjoy ice breaking games with new people? None of the usual expectations mattered here, such as note-taking or writing tests. Unlike my teachers during their frantic lessons, an actor on the stage held the full attention of the room. That was the rule. A very good rule.
Why shouldn’t I take self-led courses through online learning? I guess if I’d never dropped courses, I’d never have been offered the option of the cool, quiet room lined with computers where I could study and take quizzes as soon as I was ready. I felt such control, and such relief that I wasn’t failing again!
The World I Love
I felt like I had suddenly woken up taller and sharper, able to see clearly how the current had nearly crushed me. As I traversed the swarming halls to the auditorium, warmth swelled in my chest. New friends grinned back at me. Here was my higher ground.
How much have I really changed since I was a tiny creature unafraid of height or weakness? In adulthood, every questioning voice triggers inevitable shame. The weight of self-doubt never fully vanishes. And yet, why shouldn’t Ibe true to myself?
My hope is that I—present day Robyn—have more in common with the girl on the playground than the teen drowning her pain. Unmasking my sensitive yet bold personality may turn out to be a lifelong process! Nevertheless, I realize that belonging feels different for each person. As I open up about my pain, there is a new hope. I find myself growing to trust, to allow others to trust me in return.
Why shouldn’t we find family in each other? Why shouldn’t I share my struggles, so others feel less alone? That’s why I am here right now. With me, you too can unmask. There are no expectations or pressures to be anything you don’t want to be. Can you feel that weight lift?
Thank you for reading! 💙 ~ Robyn the Weird
If you enjoyed this post let me know. You may also enjoy the playlist that helped inspire me. (If not, let me know which music represents your transformative experiences!) 🎶
My TBR is calling. I need a book binge! Wintertime also means cozy television, so I’m watching the series ‘Bones’ for the first time! (I didn’t have cable in 2005, okay?) This has me wondering, why do I enjoy procedural shows, but I don’t read crime novels? A weird contradiction! And today I have 8 more bookish contradictions to admit to.
I love this genre but I didn’t like this book.
I rarely read this genre but I loved this book.
I love this trope but I didn’t like this book.
I hate this trope but loved this book.
I love this author but I didn’t like this book.
I previously disliked a book by this author but I loved this book.
I love the dystopia genre! You know I do. But this supposed “classic” is terrifying in the creepiest way. Is it because I listened to the audiobook? Is it the orgies? The chanting? The voice describing the manufacturing of human beings, their drugged up lives, and their childlike uselessness?
In this book, humankind has essentially lobotomized itself, congratulating itself on a perfect system. Nothing is private or independent, but is that such a bad thing? A glimpse at an authentic human moment (most notably, death and decay) reveals a nightmarish truth: perfection is impregnable. (And, now I’m sleeping with the light on.)
I had seen the movie trailers. I expected some violence and impossible odds. Children fighting monsters. A doomed world. A ruthless game. My hand clapped over my mouth as, rapt with adrenaline, I sprinted to the last page. It was electrifying and awesome! (But I wouldn’t read it again.)
I say the best books end on a hopeful note. There should always be hope at the end of a battle. It could be a single moment, looking into the face of a friend (or two), knowing life will go on. Did J.K. Rowling understand? Nah! Instead, she gave us what she wanted: a picture perfect farewell to her beloved characters. (Really?)
Every important character married with a family, successful and happy. (Boring.) The baddies are dead or defeated. The good guys are thriving. (Where is the tantalizing grey area we’ve been navigating all this time?)
At some point between the battle and the epilogue, the castle was reconstructed (by who, over how long a time?) and the wizarding students became functioning adults. But, what drives them onward? What do they hope to do? These are the questions JKR couldn’t be bothered to answer for fans of this compelling 7 book series.
…and they lived happily ever after. The end.
Forbidden romance is so unnecessary! I say, if someone is not romantically available, move on! Reality should be enough to douse idealistic fantasies. In fiction, it’s not. Falling in love from afar, or in the workplace, or against all odds, is too much for me. A boss keeps noticing the pretty employee? (Gross!) A teen pursues the surly bad boy? (Uh, good luck?) However…
In Vampire Academy, certain people are born to be trained as guards. Vampire society also demands that royalty breed only with royalty. (I mean, that’s way too restrictive!) Please understand, these are the strongest characters you’ve ever seen! Rose and her friends are much more powerful than longing and unhappiness. They are definitely strong enough to overcome heartache and death (whichever comes first)!
This teen-angst urban-vampire fantasy with the “forbidden romance” trope deserves a chance!
I bet you’ve heard of the title ‘The Rosie Project’. I love it so much. I enjoy the contemporary rom-com plot! The squirminess! And, especially, the dauntless Don Tillman and his found family!
But when I read another book from Simsion I was slightly let down. Adam Sharp is a music trivia-enthusiast who is slowly ceasing to care about things (like piano, and even people). Suddenly, he receives an invitation to revisit a past fling that might have meant a different life.
I liked the self-awareness and emotionality of Adam’s adventures. I even made a playlist of all the music mentioned throughout the novel! However, I failed to relate to the male mid-life crisis plot. There was no romanticizing this trek through Adam’s past choices. The truth is far too cynical (and, well, ugly) for my taste.
I love to hate this mish-mash of barely edited ego. Most laudably, this novel has no sequel. (Yay!) It was silly, fun, teen-angsty—and vampire-angsty—so I could not resist!
I disliked books 2-4 in the Twilight saga, yet enjoyed this little Meyer-mutant! That was unexpected. Maybe I just needed to return to Forks. Maybe it was the tragic final meeting between wolves and vamps. (My feelings!) I much prefer the alternate ending to what Meyer wrote for the original Twilight novel. (And, yeah, the gender thing. A female Ed? Hilarious, yet compelling!)
Speaking of “horror disguised as fateful romance”… (Sorry, sorry, sorry.) I’ve read it twice, okay? It doesn’t improve for me.
The cover is styled with artistic depictions of moors at the mercy of natural (and unnatural?) forces. But the written tone feels forced. And so dramatic! This is a story about a failed human experiment. Will anyone escape the moors alive to tell all?
Fair enough, this cover is unexciting. When my book club decided to read the Brontës, I had never even thought of Anne! In The Tenant, we dive headfirst into a quaint village with Helen, a handsome, mysterious stranger. As quickly as we share in her fears, the curiosity of the village consumes us too. Who is Helen? Is the answer in her artwork? Her sneaky landlord? Her young child?
Too late, we realize that the question was not Helen’s identity, but the identity of those she left behind. There is suspense. Truth creeps in the shadows. Pastoral community veils a harrowing plot! (Truthfully, I’m more invested in every minor character in this novel than than I was in Heathcliff!)
Do you have any bookish contradictions? Happy reading, friends! (P.S. Can you recommend crime/mystery books for a Bones fan?)
I’m such a paradox. I happily eat the same breakfast almost every day (Cheerios and a banana). But I also adore new textures and flavors! The sense of taste is very connected to feeling safe. Comforted. Conversely, strange foods, whether subtle or strong, can draw us outside ourselves.
Your relationship with food inevitably effects every other relationship in your life. Do you chase new experiences? Do you share openly? Are you contently set in your ways? Are you afraid? Or, worst of all, have you quit caring?
I feel awful. I mean, I’m okay. But something is off in me today, and food won’t fix it. Sometimes that happens, you know? Caffeine doesn’t jolt. Breakfast won’t satiate. My head spins despite a full night of sleep. 😥
Enjoyment comes second to fuelling my lethargic legs and arms! It’s okay, on days like today, to eat what I can. In my head, I repeat: “You don’t have to go anywhere. You don’t even need to stay awake. You can drive to the store and buy the things. Or not.”
I think about blending up some salsa, but “meh.”
I play some Harvest Moon in which I “bake” a “Legendary Peach Pie”.
Then I remember that scrambled eggs are a thing! I scramble up those eggs, stir and season, then throw some chopped avocado and hot sauce on top. That will do. 😂
A mild crisis 🌶
Eggs are a perfect example of how important spices are to food! Through my fragmented thoughts, I am 100% aware that without generously applied ground pepper and a light salting, these eggs will be nothing. A total non-experience! So, even though I just want my stomach to stop growling, I make that effort.
I’m 33 years old. Jordan and I were married about 13 years ago. I had my “safe foods”, of course. And Jordan had not been used to much variety, himself. One breakfast food we would both enjoy was scrambled eggs!
Only, we couldn’t cook them. In hindsight there were two problems: 1. No non-stick frying pan 2. and no idea how to season food.
Honestly, where was this lesson in home economics class? 😲
My attempts at ground beef were just as iffy. Do you know what beef tastes like without enough salt? Uh…feet. Seasoning matters!
I didn’t give up! 🌶🌶
Who needs spice?
At many points over the years my cooking skills have taken dramatic leaps forward! For example, actually salting the beef and buying that non-stick skillet! And then, there was the realization that I could no longer depend on spice mixes from the grocery store. See, in many of those mixes, staple ingredients are garlic and onion powder. These are yikes for my IBS. No, thanks. 😑
So I invented my own “taco seasoning mix”, specifically established to enliven the taste of ground beef! I started with, yes, salt. Ground black pepper was also very important for the “bite” required! What else? I had recently discovered cumin, and I added paprika too, for good measure (and for the color!) Now, to concoct the perfect blend.
It was… delicious! On that very day I discovered an intuition in the kitchen I had never felt before. This was a few years before I progressed to hot sauce, but it was the very beginning of my true relationship with spice. ☺️
Jordan and I have both progressed over the years to appreciate new and exciting seasonings and sauces—but those are many other stories.
Handle your spice 🌶🌶🌶
We recently discovered air fryers, so chicken wings are now a crucial (and spicy) part of our lives! 😋
I’ve learned a lot about myself through day-to-day cooking. I’ve learned that avocados are frenemies. I’ve learned that all vegetables taste good if you don’t over-cook or under-season ‘em. And I’ve learned that I am willing to handle raw chicken…if the resulting dish packs a little heat!
I feel this message about eating can’t be emphasized enough: we are meant to love food! Everything that matters is linked to eating: community and family, performance and endurance, adventure and culture.
Allow yourself to look for the spice in your life. You deserve more than bottled sweetness with a pithy brand name! Demand everything from food—and from life.
It’s Sunday morning and I want pancakes. With strawberries. Yum, and coffee! I can feel fireworks in my brain just thinking about breakfast! It is sweet, satisfying, stress-free deliciousness.
In the past I couldn’t always enjoy breakfast. I guess that’s why I appreciate it now more than any other meal! It has been a long road to where I am now.
Eating, or Not
I didn’t have many “safe foods” as a teenager. See, when most food bloats you up like a balloon, it’s just not in your best interest to eat before going out into public!
One option I could work with was plain oatmeal (with no milk). That’s about it. Sugary foods made me feel terrible on the long bus ride to school. So, as my siblings downed cereal or a meal replacement shake, I microwaved oats and forced them down.
Fast-forward ten years or so and I was still suffering. Worse, I was limited to a narrow diet called a “cleanse” to “detox the gut environment”. I hated food. I hated mornings. I hated being in my body.
Food that feels good should taste good
At least this horrible cleanse introduced me to a new concept: protein for breakfast. Specifically, eggs and vegetables. At this point I honestly didn’t much care about taste. Even so, I desperately needed a reprieve from the same old flavors.
My salvation was found in a quinoa and berry bowl! Some days this was my breakfast and lunch. I loved the berries. The quinoa could be made in batches and taken to work for lunch. Best of all, it seemed to appease my turbulent innards. The combination of fibre, protein, fat and a dash of cinnamon – well, it tasted like hope!
These days, “cleanses” and “diets” are long, long past. Good riddance! I no longer dread breakfast. Still, eggs and oatmeal can be a little dull. Enter my next new breakfast breakthrough!
Sweet Strawberry Life
It’s Sunday morning and I want pancakes. Wheat-free, dairy-free, sugar-free pancakes. Impossible? Nope! I found this on Pinterest of all places! Pinterest pancakes. ❤️
When a dainty breakfast won’t cut it, this miracle of a meal takes under 10 minutes, smells amazing and pairs beautifully with every topping: fruit, nut butter, chocolate, cinnamon, or berries and vanilla!
Has anyone else out there had an epiphany about something so common as breakfast? Have you felt the excitement of discovering the perfect low-cost recipe? Ever been awakened to the lies of diet culture and felt truly free?
As for me, it has been rare to scent sweetness in the air knowing that smell was for me. Bakeries? Not for me. Breakfast bars were never for me. Party food? No, again. This single recipe freed me. I became aware of hope and possibility!
Although self-care is a popular term these days, the road is long to freedom from all the ingrained beliefs about healthy living. It was only a few years ago I taught myself that I deserve deliciousness every single day. Who knows what I’ll be determined to deserve next!
Victober. I thought it was a spooky bookish event. I thought I’d need to read Dracula! Or Wuthering Heights (again).
I was wrong. See, Victorian literature isn’t all gothic thrill and desperate heroism. Morality may be expounded; characters self-aware or heedless, as well as the heroic. I have found this genre to be structured, inspirational, domestic – or a combination thereof. And sure, it’s often suspenseful!
I suspect it’s time to hoard some Victorian classics! Thanks to Club Austen, I’ve already discovered several Victorian novels that have transformed me. 🖤
A bookdragon needs to explore treasure from every era.
A Tale Of Two Cities by Charles Dickens
Dickens describes hope and strength in the midst of poverty. His artful method assigns meaning to the grotesque; poetry to the mundane.
A frenchman rejects his inheritance, dedicating his life to the moral high road. Meanwhile, an englishman is “recalled to life” from The Bastille prison. A slew of innocent, guilty, and morally grey characters merge in a maelstrom of corruption and revolution.
Suspense and secrecy unravel slowly and tantalizingly to reveal the truth in a shocking revelation.
Fiction based on a real-life historical event: the French Revolution!
The oppression by the French aristocracy reaches boiling point. The peasant class rises as one to revolt. Even an old school textbook version of events horrified my teenaged self. Experienced through the eyes of Dickens’ ink-for-blood characters, it is devastating.
Monsters. To read about monstrous people and their dehumanizing acts which incited revolutionaries to violence is horrifying.
North And South by Elizabeth Gaskell
Margaret Hale is in transition. The wedding of her cousin marks the date she is to return to the love-filled parsonage where her dear parents reside. She is then quickly and unexpectedly transplanted again, this time to a strange location.
Now in a factory town, culture shock wars with the upright Margaret’s dignity. She confronts her biases as she meets the locals, including successful businessman John Thornton. Meanwhile, her quick eye and capable mind unravel the workings of her new, fascinating home.
A strong female who is treated as capable by all who understand her. Margaret is deferred to by her parents. She carries herself with rational calm. By contrast, the whining and giddy females in her life tend to lift our queen high above all else.
Even today, it is notable that a female main character should be her own savior.
Tolerance. When the doubter, the believer, and the dissenter can work together it proves love conquers all! I like to see a productive debate over law, religion, and faith. Take note, 21st century readers!
I would compare Miss Hale to Jane Austen’s Elinor, whose strength was also necessary and self-perpetuating.
When a wonderful character is only introduced at the end of a book! Mr. Bell ties everyone together (I won’t say how). His witty wordplay adds sauciness to a languid stretch and develops every character he meets. He is gold.
David Copperfield by Charles Dickens
David Copperfield is a fatherless child, happily cared for by his youthful mother and her devoted housekeeper, Peggotty. When his new stepfather sends the sensitive boy to school, David finds protection under a charismatic elder student with his own dubious motives.
Life veers down the darkest of paths when David after his mother’s tragic death. However, he seems born to work hard. He has memorized stories and plays the hero time and again; the dutiful nephew, the kind stranger, the devoted employee. Will he realize that real life does not always deliver the hero from harm?
The found family trope! Specifically, the eccentric found family: Mr. Dick, Betsey, Trotwood, and Little Blossom! I live for this flawed, saintly, loyal crew.
A fake memoir. I don’t think this is an unusual trope in Victorian lit. (My favorite character of all time, Jane Eyre, was written in similar style!) They say Charles Dickens incorporated much of his own experience into this novel. I am sorry to hear it! Mr. Copperfield’s life could fill three lifetimes with heartache and drama!
A naïve main character. Time after time after time, David falls for a trick. A manipulation. A duplicitous friendship. I just want him to stand up for himself once.
So that was my October. I look forward to next year’s celebration of Victorian novels!
Above are the novels I’m coveting for my growing hoard. What are your favorite Victorian authors, novels, characters?
A new series about my relationship with food, my experiences, and a dose of humor!
Do you know how to pinpoint your favorite food of all time? I’ll tell you. Live with IBS for most of your life. Once you fear eating anything beyond the most simple foods, take note which dish you’d actually risk horrible pain for! Mine is salsa and chips.
“Even now, I hold on to fears. I perseverate about what, when, and how to eat. The act of planning, preparing, then eating can be too much at times.”
Can I still…like food?
I’ve previously written about my discovery of ‘Low-FODMAP’ to manage my IBS symptoms, which led to my discovery of pain-free eating. From that first moment of freedom I was fully convinced eating certain “high-FODMAP foods” would never again be worth the pain!
Except, what about my favorite food? Chips and salsa! I’ve always loved tomato-based sauces. Salsa with tortilla chips was the absolute best snack, in my opinion! Unfortunately, do you know what most sauces have in common? Garlic and onion ingredients. (Which I would now prefer to wear around my neck rather than to consume!) 🧄🧅🧄
New mission: create a delicious salsa that adds spice to life and is quick to make! Do you see where I’m going with this? I made the salsa. 😋 I know, it’s awesome! Fresh salsa is always tastier than processed jars from the store, and this could be cheaper, even healthier! 👌
I have three states: 1) not hungry, 2) grumbly tummy, or 3) hypoglycaemic! Haha, it’s silly…but also true. 😅
There is a reason that quick is key. Sometimes I feel suddenly snack-y! On a serious note, my history living with IBS has resulted in a turbulent relationship with food. The queues that should tell me I’m hungry are still difficult for me to decipher.
Even now, I hold on to fears. I perseverate about what, when, and how to eat. The act of planning, preparing, and then eating can be too much at times. This is why I accumulate quick, simple, delicious recipes – for those days when I am desperate for something wholesome. Here’s the very first one!
Snack-y Salsa 🌶
Makes 4 cups of low-FODMAP salsa, great for dipping chips, for tacos, or as a salad topping!
28 oz canned whole tomatoes
Juice of 1/2 lime
(at least) 1 Cup chopped green onion (greens only)
(at least) 1/2 Cup chopped cilantro
1 Habanero pepper, chopped
(at least) 1 tsp ground black pepper
(at least) 1 tsp salt
1/2 tsp cumin
Ensure canned tomatoes are unseasoned.
A smaller pepper will be spicier! Remove all seeds and the white from inside pepper, then add to mix in small amounts to achieve desired spiciness.
Sample freshly blended salsa using a chip, and wait a few moments to gauge the heat. You can always add more seeds and/or ground pepper spice it up.
Best if allowed to refrigerate for a day.
If you prefer thicker salsa, leave some tomato juice aside (however, salsa will thicken as it refrigerates).
Wash all ingredients
Add tomatoes to blender
Squeeze lime wedges, add juice to blender
Chop cilantro (include stems for a stronger flavour)
Add chopped cilantro to blender
Chop green onion
Add chopped green onion to blender
Cut habanero in half, removing whites and seeds
Add habanero to blender (See note)
Wash hands thoroughly after touching pepper and seeds
Add salt, ground pepper and cumin
Blend for 20-30 seconds, taste test for heat.
Pour into sealable container and refrigerate.
Cilantro won’t stay fresh for long. After washing, it can be frozen in containers (with a sprinkling of water).
To remove strong flavors from your blender: Chop a whole lemon. Add with a cup of water to your blender. Blend, then empty and wash blender.
Add fresh chopped ingredients before serving, such as avocado or bell pepper!
What do you think? Ready for a party (at home, in front of a great Gilmore Girls episode)? I thought so!
Life, et cetera
I am starting this blog series because too many people feel alone in dealing with their mistrust of food. No one should feel alone. We eat for fuel every single day! The way we eat should indicate a healthy view of ourselves: that we deserve what’s good for us. We deserve to feel great! 😊
I’m going to prove to you that you only need a few very simple steps to thrive. Start by figuring out what your very favorite food is, and make it work for you!
It is the first week of September 2021 and I really want to write something! September is my favorite month of the year. I’m not a fan of summer, to be honest. Autumn is a glorious relief! 🍁
Problem: I have plenty of ideas for blog posts, but none that I really want to delve into right now. I poured a lot of myself into my last few blog posts and I might still be recovering emotionally.
Last week I caught a cold. I used my CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) toolkit to manage the anxiety over feeling ill (and getting worse). My doctor recommended a test for the COVID-19 virus and I tested negative a day and a half later. Whew!
I talked to my therapist on the phone for the first time in a couple years. I just needed to hear someone acknowledge all the internal work I’d been doing. I try to self-encourage, but there’s no replacement for the real thing: encouragement from someone who knows me well and can see how far I’ve come. 😊
Currently, my favorite way to get out of the house is to download a podcast to fit my mood and take a walk around the block! If it’s cloudy, I’ll go out for sure. If it’s sunny… well, maybe with a little sunblock and baseball cap and sunglasses I’ll feel safe to venture out.
I’ve been working on expanding my ideas of nutrition and “safe” food. For example, I love Ketchup! But, anytime I eat it, a string of thoughts disparage my choice: “You don’t need Ketchup. You know it’s mostly sugar. And high fructose. If you get gut pain, it’s your fault for adding Ketchup!” Who could enjoy a meal with that voice in their head? 😝
I recently learned that it’s actually detrimental to cut a food type from the diet, especially if it’s a broad group like fructose (a FODMAP type). So, fructose-containing Ketchup, you are now an important and valued part of Robyn’s meal plan! I also like to mix Ketchup with hot sauce for a spicier hybrid, or with soy sauce for a saltier option.
I hope that one day I will write poetry as powerful as Imagine Dragons! Their new album was released just in time to carry me through. Because I feel sad, I need music to remind me who I am at my core. Because I am preoccupied, I need to sit here and feel safe.
I have been thinking about getting my electronic drum kit back from my dad who borrowed it a while back, before we moved. Writing The Unmasking Of Robyn the Weird took me back to times when drumming was the only secure point in my universe. I want that again. Plus, Jordan has always loved that I’m a drummer! 🎶
Right now I am camped out on my cozy couch, with Spotify, Harvest Moon: Light Of Hope for Nintendo Switch, and Sweet Magnolias (that’s a great binge-watch, btw)! It is a safe space.
However, from my current perspective, ideas for the future seem way too distant. My future looks like nature walks with my husband Jordan, visiting nieces and nephews, and trips to the movie theatre. How can we have faith that the future is on its way, when the present feels so very stagnant and dreary? I don’t know, friends. I don’t know.
Okay, first of all, I have set spiritual goals! I’m really excited to build a new prayer routine and read the bible, meditating on our loving creator. Nothing can warm my entire being like joining a Zoom call and recognizing that we’ve all shown up as a congregation to worship God and to support one another! ❤️
I’ve been reading just fantastic books lately! Young adult adventures, with happy(ish) endings, and imaginative fantasy worlds! The latest has been The Tethering by Megan O’Russell! Book two, The Siren’s Realm had the desperate sweetness of J.K. Rowling’s Prisoner Of Azkaban. I know, because I had to stop a while – you don’t move on to Goblet of Fire without a breather, am I right?
For autumn, I am excited about rainy days watching You’ve Got Mail and Gilmore Girls. Maybe taking walks with friends. Maybe new dinner recipes. The next book on my Kindle, the latest podcast episode, and the next Friday book club discussion!
I really, really want to be okay. I want you all—friends and family and anyone out there in Internet-land—to be okay. For now, okay could be enough. It’s not forever, and someday we’ll even be wonderful again!
I’m obsessed. It is never a challenge to explore Jane Austen’s genius in my reading—and in life!
I love and appreciate Jane’s voice for its control, amusement, and moral judgment. I often feel drawn to pick up one of her six novels, whether ebook or audiobook, for its soothing and entertaining familiarity! Which would you say is your favorite, and why?
Impressions & Confessions
I was not early to appreciate this sort of novel. In fact, I watched the 2005 Pride and Prejudice film adaptation before ever having read the famous novel! To my credit, I bought the book quickly afterwards and it became my new favorite!
Next, I tried to read Persuasion…and failed. The introduction and explanation of the Elliott family was so dull! I did eventually finish reading Persuasion, but my slow start had made the swift resolution seem far too abrupt. I felt let down. It would take a re-read or two before I began to consider this a favorite.
When I read Sense and Sensibility, I was hooked on the sisterhood and the inner strength of Miss Dashwood! I thought it was even better than Pride and Prejudice! (I still flip-flop between the two books to this day.)
I confess, I did not enjoy reading Northanger Abbey the first time. To be fair, I did not understand the gothic literary references. I didn’t realize at first that Catherine was more a caricature of girlishness than a heroine. In the end, I decided that Mr. Tilney was very much worth understanding!
Mansfield Park became an immediate favorite, contrary to expectation. Whereas Northanger Abbey is ironic and dramatic, Mansfield Park is serious. Fanny Price feels the atmosphere gradually shift as the Crawfords invade The Park. The Bertram family is seemingly oblivious to an unanswerable sense of impending doom!
I suppose that Emma is the most difficult to enjoy because the title character is neither innocent nor self-aware. But when I consider that this book is a comedy centred around a strong female lead, and that Emma has as much right as any male hero to overcome her flaws, I admit this novel is a true masterpiece!
Although I love her novels, their retellings and adaptations tend to fall short. Yet there are so many of them! Can you blame me for my trepidation?
#7. Watch a modern re-telling
Clueless is a sassy, silly, quality film based on ‘Emma’.
Comedy? Check. Clever female lead? Check. Social hierarchy, delicate friendships, and 90s teen rom-com vibes? Check, check, check. I have re-watched this so many times!
Alicia Silverstone, Paul Rudd and Brittany Murphy star in a pic beloved by all! The Austen plot is cleverly blended into modern Beverly Hills life. The main character, Cher Horowitz, plays matchmaker at her high school whilst believing herself to be above it all.
#6. Watch a direct screen adaptation
Northanger Abbey (1987) is based on the novel of the same name, but takes liberties with the overall tone.
The character development was severely lacking, which is an egregious offence. The one redeeming quality was its recreation of the ambiguous act of “taking the waters” at the pump room in Bath.
#5. Read a book by a contemporary of Jane
I can’t prove this, but I think Charles Dickens must have read Austen! Dickens writes biting social commentary with heavy irony, intricate plot, and happy conclusions for the deserving characters. Sound familiar? Oliver Twist was excellent and suspenseful, and Club Austen will next read David Copperfield.
Maybe I should seek out books by other writers from Austen’s time period…but I’m not sure where to start. Help!
#4. Read a retelling
Pride by Ibi Zoboi
Zuri’s older sister Jenae is interested in the new boy across the street. This is going to ruin her plans for the summer.
Intelligent and caring characters ❤️ (With clever names based on Austen’s Pride and Prejudice!)
Dialogue-driven plot ❤️ (He said WHAT? OH NO!)
Tangible stakes ❤️
A clever, modern twist! ❤️ (Who knew that gentrification of city housing would be an excellent background to bookish Zizi’s struggle with prejudice?)
An artistic audio performance! ❤️
Longbourn by Jo Baker
I was very intrigued at the beginning to know how the maids’ stories would end. However, by the end of the second volume, I just no longer cared.
The twist: The events of Pride and Prejudice from the POV of the servants.
There are more secrets in the Bennet household than you might suppose.
A jarring flashback away from Longbourn made it feel like a different novel. It became violent.
An explicit narrative with darkness unnecessary to an Austen retelling.
The audiobook quality was as inconsistent as the writing.
These two chapters are an “alternate ending”. The unpolished lines resemble an original script, where the scene was eventually cut. It was fun to read, certainly! It was clearly replaced by the tense drawing room scene, with a secret, hasty letter professing love, and tender meaning passing between two sets of earnest eyes.
In this first draft, the resolution had occurred because a jovial Admiral (as his profession was bound to do) ignored social restraints to prevent misunderstanding, thereby accidentally forcing the hero into conversation with the heroine over the state of her hand and heart. It would have made a comic play, but was ill-fitted to satisfy the deep passions of our beloved Anne and Frederick!
#1. Read one of the six main novels
Earlier this year, I listened to the Librivox recording of Sense and Sensibility. I was surprised how relaxing it was to listen to a favorite, for example, while working on a spreadsheet, cooking dinner, or MarioKart racing.
My emotions are less engaged when I am listening rather than reading, so I notice more of the details. This week, I chose to listen to Persuasion!
Do you realize how many instances there are where we, the reader, are aware of motive and emotion that the characters themselves will not admit to? This novel should have been titled, “Obstinacy and Ignorance”!
I need your recommendations because I have been burned before!
Can you recommend a witty, charming, poignant adaptation? How about an informative blog, podcast or book? And would you please warn me away from fiction inspired by dear Jane that departs too disturbingly far from her style?
Is it June, already?! There’s a heat wave coming this week, and I’m ready to hole up indoors and enjoy writing about some books. What do you like to read in the summertime?
This year has been atypical so far. I feared that my vision was worsening, but a trip to the Optometrist proved only that my eyes were chronically dry. Thanks to audiobooks, podcasts, and new music, I have survived the weeks of mandatory rest for my eyes. A series of treatments later, and I’m ready to get back to my ever-lengthening TBR list! 🐉📚
#1 Best Book You’ve Read So Far In 2021
A Tale Of Two Cities by Charles Dickens
A Tale Of Two Cities was just so poignant, and I need more! Charles Dickens’ voice is saturated with irony. The best part was experiencing this tale for the first time with my brilliant book club friends, Lucy, Mon and Maria! We are finishing up Oliver Twist soon, and I’m sensing another fast favourite. ❤️
Free audiobook available on YouTube via Librivox.org
#2 Best Sequel You’ve Read So Far In 2021
Ice and Sky (Ena Of Ilbrea #3) by Megan O’Russell
This is a story of survival. Survival for Ena, the enduring main character, and survival of a people who have been crushed to the brink of existence. Ilbrea is a desolate place, but special folks carve out their own havens and make their stand against evil, and that makes this story worthwhile.
#3 New Release You Haven’t Read Yet But Want To
Tower of Nero (The Trials Of Apollo #5) by Rick Riordan
Apollo is changing. I didn’t know gods could do that. I guess it’s the immortality-thing. Thankfully, in this final instalment of this series, Apollo is still mortal!
He is awkward, sullen, and he is still playing servant to a snarky girl called Meg. Why not try to confront his mortal enemy? This can only end well.
#4 Most anticipated release for the second half of the year
All Ways by Kelly Coons
“With humor and warmth, author Kelly Coons introduces neurotypical readers to the rich interpersonal lives of [two autistic] people, challenging biases about autism. At the same time, Autistic readers will feel at home with Andreas and York as they come to terms with their “differences” and move boldly toward their future.” —About ‘All Ways’ by Kelly Coons
#5 Biggest disappointment
Ready Player Two by Ernest Cline
Ugh, I don’t want to talk about it. (See my review at Robearsbooks)
#6 Biggest surprise
The Real Doctor Will See You Shortly: A Physician’s First Year by Matt McCarthy
This memoir was described to me as a funny, candid account of a doctor’s intern year. I’d been listening to a Scrubs podcast and hoped that this memoir would fit in with the humor/medical mood!
It was entertaining, sure. But it was also surprisingly compelling and full of human connection. Twists and turns. Dr. McCarthy recollects his excruciating progress through thirty hour shifts, stale food and trauma. Struggling to connect with patients without losing touch with reality, Matt is gradually forged into a Real Doctor.
I listened to this Podcast on Spotify, but here’s the main link. So funny, and interesting with behind-the-scenes details! Fake Doctors Real Friends with Zach and Donald Definitely check out the episodes guest starring Judy and John C! ❤️❤️❤️ #fangirling
#7 Favorite new author (debut or new to you)
My favorite part of reading her books is that I never want to stop. It’s actually painful not to have the next book in the series! At least, I can explore her other series while I wait! (See my blog post about her latest, here.)
I knew to expect excellence from The Hunger Games author, but her substantial, poetic prose surprised and impressed me! (See my blog post reviewing The Hunger Games and more…here.)
#8 Newest fictional crush
The Code For Love And Heartbreak By Jillian Cantor
This extra-sweet teen romance is loosely based on Jane Austen’s Emma! This Emma is a talented but socially awkward student, rather than a social queen. Why does she care about matchmaking? Well, she has to invent an app for her coding club, and—well, you’ll see!
#9 Newest favorite character
Javier (from vN: The Machine Dynasty #1 by Madeline Ashby)
Javier is an adult android, created specifically to save the earth from global warming. That may be the reason he was born, and what he is good at, but can he do more? And how long can he keep outrunning (and out-jumping) the violence and injustice?
Javier is supporting character to Amy in this science fiction thriller about artificial intelligence. The plot takes place in a dystopian system in which one religion monopolizes artificial intelligence. The extreme religious teachings affect all people, both organic and synthetic.
#10 Book that made you cry
Let Me Hear A Rhyme by Tiffany D. Jackson
You know that I love books about music! The poetic lyrics interspersed throughout intensified my empathy for the teenage characters as they grieved for their friend.
“Korey Jackson, Nile Bullock, Adenrele Ojo, and Adam Lazarre-White take turns narrating this young adult title set in the ’90s in New York City. Each narrator brings a unique and heartbreaking voice to life. The story follows two best friends who try to honor the life and rapping talent of a friend who has died. With the help of his sister, they hatch a scheme to make him famous from beyond the grave by getting him a record deal. The quartet of narrators has such distinct voices that the story plays out like an audio drama. These captivating performances will keep listeners glued to their earbuds. This is an audiobook that begs to be binged.” —audiofilemagazine.com
#11 Book that made you happy
Tone Deaf by Olivia Rivers
This is a special book. The author wanted to create a main character living with a realistic disability. Compared to the often romanticized dysfunction common to YA, these characters strike me as realistically sincere, and flawed, survivors.
Here, we have a book with a musical theme, but primarily we follow Ali as she fights for her life. After reading the final paragraph, I then jumped back to page one on my Kindle, starting it over again! It was just too emotional to feel everything in that first read.
#12 Most beautiful book you’ve bought (or received) this year
I had lent my friend a book a while back, and recently she gave me a heads up that she was mailing it back to me. Great! As it turned out, she was using this as an excuse to send me a gift:
A handmade book. Wow. Made from up-cycled material, this journal could be used as a scrapbook, travel journal, or maybe even a poetry book. I imagine that Jane Austen herself possessed a book such as this to record her thoughts.
#13 What books do you need to read by the end of the year?
I will definitely continue to read Charles Dickens.
I’m excited to slip back into the world of androids via the sequel to vN …when I’m ready.
Did you know about Jane Austen July? Apparently it’s time for more Austen obsession, and I’m here for it!!
There’s no pressure here, though. Slowing down this year has heightened my appetite for both fiction and non, and I feel blessed with abundance! Please comment to recommend any great audiobooks or podcasts (whether or not they’re about books). I love to learn, and I need some laughs.
I have had health issues from childhood. I’ve looked back many times, wondering how it could have been so difficult to be heard, treated, healed.
I lost respect for doctors, lost hope in medical treatment, and lost trust in myself. I even stopped self-advocating at times, and just survived day to day.
I’ve recently overcome some great hurdles! I have released my shame. It is not shameful to hurt, nor to seek help.I can say aloud: I live with IBS! I’ve hidden it, hated it, and even hated myself. The craziest part is knowing that mental health is intimately connected to gut health— no wonder I’ve had problems!
If the doctors failed me, my education failed me even more. It failed us all. There was no map to navigate the boundaries of medical care. I like to believe we’re trying to remedy this as a country by teaching the next generation self-care and health awareness!
So, to do my part for health education, here are my five biggest takeaways from my 32 years of experience. I hope someone out there finds this encouraging! ❤️
#1. No two people are the same!
How do I know? It’s even evident in children. Energy levels and appetites vary. It’s normal for kids to run at different speeds. Unfortunately, despite natural differences, kids are pitted against each other in the classroom to encourage obedience, performance and learning.
When is this a bad thing? When children don’t know to say: I hurt. I can’t focus. I can’t eat this. Being different is seen as a failure to fit in with peers. Communication and self-awareness have two strikes against them from the very beginning!
Medicine deals in averages, but in reality any course of treatment that works for one person may not work for another! This leads to my second lesson.
#2. Simple answers to health and wellness do not exist.
Most of us are so disconnected from what wellness feels and looks like that we are unlikely to recognize an issue when it first appears.
It always seemed to me that doctors were only there for the big questions. And they were presumed to have infallible scientific procedures to diagnose illnesses. The reality is that science and technology are constantly evolving, which means that medical care is complex and changeable.
Ideally, a healthy person should have a relationship with their physician wherein they consult on any change in life that affects their wellness. This is the only way to truly pursue health.
Tip: Everyone wants to exploit your need for health care. So move cautiously! If it seems too good to be true, it likely is. Evidence-based medicine is the best bet.
#3. Everyone needs a health vocabulary.
There are plenty of words to describe healthy and unhealthy mental and physical states. Have you ever visited the doctor and not known how to describe why you were there? I’m sure it’s a common scenario! Unfortunately, educating the public is a low priority for the health care system, so we must educate ourselves.
For years I didn’t know anxiety was a normal feeling. I didn’t know how to describe stress, loneliness, or sadness when these became disruptive to my life. Mental health is a concept that changed my life for the better! Everyone should be taught to recognize signs of illness, and to talk about health.
Why didn’t our parents teach us how to talk about our health? Honestly, I doubt that our mothers and grandmothers were ever taught to listen to their own bodies, much less to talk about body functions. Most health questions were probably answered by unqualified family members!
#4. We know ourselves best.
Doctors know the medicine. We know what feels right in our bodies. We often believe we have no choice but to accept treatment offered by the first doctor we see. Fortunately, having access to the Internet means we can consult reputable web pages for treatment protocols and bring these up with our doctors.
Our lifestyle, our emotional state, and our investment in recovery all influence the treatment’s success. Sometimes, we may even say “no thank you” to a treatment. Why? Our concerns are just as important as the listing of symptoms when selecting a treatment options. We may wish to try alternative treatments prior to taking drastic steps such as surgery or medication. A good doctor takes our wishes into account—always.
Tip: Tell the doctor you’ll be back. When I was assigned to a new G.P., I had been waiting almost a year. When I began to explain my health situation, she immediately cut me off! I was choked. But I subsequently explained that I was ready to come back as many times as it took to find answers. After that, she always listened to me.
#5. Disability and illness are not inspirational stories.
We read so many stories about the cheerful perseverance of terminally ill patients, or about people living with disabilities. The reality is that suffering causes irritability, fear, loneliness and depression.
People living with disability might use a mobility device, but a disability can also be invisible. They may be healthy, or they may be living with illness. Either way, we all need to learn that disability is a way to be human! It certainly doesn’t exempt the person from the most human of experiences in life.
When a person strives for a balanced, fulfilling life they are not “being inspiring”—they are being human. Many people choose to share encouraging success stories, and that’s okay. But when health issues are viewed only as inspirational, we devalue the human experience.
As a kid with health issues, I thought to myself, “I’ll be kind and helpful, and have a fulfilling life.” But time spent on treatments got to me. I hated having to tell other people why I couldn’t do things. And when I couldn’t be an “inspiring” person, my self-esteem dipped low.
Self-advocacy is key.
Do you practice mindfulness? Children can learn this—in fact, the younger the better! We give ourselves a giant advantage in life when we habitually take stock of our emotions, our thought patterns and our body’s signals.
A deep knowledge of our personal traits can ground us during future struggles. We can then use our strong sense of identity to advocate and to defend our needs with medical professionals and with our own family!
Ultimately, the goal is a balanced life. Doctors should always be willing to help us get to the point where our lives are balanced. Even if we haven’t been balancing nutrition and exercise, this does not disqualify us from asking for medical assistance. Struggling to socialize, to get out of bed, to cook meals, to take even a short walk outdoors – these are legitimate health concerns.
I really wish I had known these things long ago, but I’m so glad to know them now! As a self-advocate, I believe we all deserve help from professionals who have studied human health and medicine. You deserve to ask for help and to receive it. 🖤
Hey, Janeites! Have you noticed that everything is a bit much lately? Between work, a global pandemic, health stuff, and family stuff, sometimes the drama seems never ending.
Thankfully, we have Jane Austen! Jane’s protagonists are models of poise and gumption. Even today, in the age of social media, their examples hold up. Here are six ways to imitate these heroines when dealing with drama!
Be a Lizzy
The situation: The wealthiest and most pretentious person Lizzy has ever met suddenly shows up at her home demanding to see her! Imagine being in your comfy clothes, unable to remember how you left your hair. All that stands between you and pure mortification is your composure, so you try to act natural.
I feel anxious even imagining this scenario! For those of us with social anxiety, surprise visits are hell. Thanks to Lizzy, if a condescending visitor stops by, or a stranger insults me to my face, I know how to respond with: You are rude, and we are done.
“You can now have nothing further to say,” she resentfully answered. “You have insulted me in every possible method. I must beg to return to the house.”
Pride and Prejudice, chapter 56
Be an Elinor
Let the haters hate.
The situation: While visiting friends, Elinor is invited to a group hang that includes relatives of her secret crush! Having already accepted that she and her crush aren’t going to happen, she decides to be amused by the family’s snobbery. They are giving her the cold shoulder in such an obvious way that it’s kind of funny!
I’m inspired by Elinor not to let negativity draw me in! There are always toxic conversations happening on social media. Sometimes my friends jump in and I have to resist engaging. But I don’t want to be like Marianne who embarrassed Elinor by openly showing concern. Let’s not give the trolls that satisfaction!
She could not but smile to see the graciousness of both mother and daughter towards the very person—for Lucy was particularly distinguished—whom of all others, had they known as much as she did, they would have been most anxious to mortify; while she herself, who had comparatively no power to wound them, sat pointedly slighted by both.
Sense and Sensibility, chapter 34
Be a Catherine
Speak your truth.
The situation: True, Catherine Morland is naive. Yet her openness is pure and admirable! Misunderstanding? She’ll clear that right up. If she likes someone, she’ll say it. It’s a rare trait, especially considering regency era women were expected to use a very specific script to properly socialize.
We are all taught how to make “polite conversation”. However, telling the full truth instead can set the tone for a deep new friendship. We attract authenticity when we show our true selves. I want to seek out new friends with enthusiasm and joy, like Catherine!
“Oh! Mr. Tilney, I have been quite wild to speak to you, and make my apologies. You must have thought me so rude; but indeed it was not my own fault, was it, Mrs. Allen? Did not they tell me that Mr. Tilney and his sister were gone out in a phaeton together? And then what could I do? But I had ten thousand times rather have been with you; now had not I, Mrs. Allen?”
Northanger Abbey, chapter 12
Be an Anne
Assume the best.
The situation: Anne is the forgotten Elliot sister. Written off by her family, undervalued and unsupported, she develops a keen sense for both genuine and superficial behaviours. She often forgives seemingly selfish behaviour. When a jilted ex comes back to town, she even manages to assume the best in his actions!
If I don’t know why someone is ignoring me or offering advice or criticism, it’s difficult to assume they have good intentions. But I want to! After all, when my anxiety disorder flares up, I don’t want other people to assume I’m ignoring them, or that I am bored with their friendship. Flawed friendships are still valuable ones, especially if, like Anne, we need help to keep toxic people from dragging us down.
“So altered that he should not have known her again!” These were words which could not but dwell with her. Yet she soon began to rejoice that she had heard them. They were of sobering tendency; they allayed agitation; they composed, and consequently must make her happier. Frederick Wentworth had used such words, or something like them, but without an idea that they would be carried round to her. He had thought her wretchedly altered, and in the first moment of appeal, had spoken as he felt.
Persuasion, chapter 7
Be a Fanny
The situation: Fanny Price is the wallflower of Austen heroines. Her humility is often jarring. But she displays loyalty to her own values and to those who have been good to her. When she faces abuse or defamation, she can bear it as long as her best friends still think well of her. Her principles are a sturdy support.
I’m extremely careful about sharing my private thoughts and feelings. When someone earns my trust, I’m excited to prove my respect and affection! Like Fanny, highly sensitive people need to be careful choosing friends. Therefore I’m looking for Fanny Price’s qualities in a friend: humility, morality, and compassion.
Her own thoughts and reflections were habitually her best companions.
Mansfield Park, chapter 8
Be an Emma
The situation: Emma is kind. She brings joy and energy to the lives of her friends. She also likes drama. Okay, she loves drama! If she does get hurt feelings, rather than show it, she’ll simply laugh it off. It’s a strength and a skill, especially in her gossipy town.
“Silly things do cease to be silly if they are done by sensible people in an impudent way.”
Emma, chapter 8, volume 2
It’s not about getting the last laugh. It’s about giving yourself an out! No one is perfect. If someone is calling you out, it’s gonna hurt. Laugh to care less about a needlessly rude comment. Laugh to show them—and yourself—that you’ve already moved on.
“It is very unfair to judge of any body’s conduct, without an intimate knowledge of their situation.”
Emma, chapter 18, volume 1
Above all, I hate gossip, which involves taking pleasure in the struggles of others. Gossip dissolves all trust. When a situation escalates, I try to remember Jane Austen’s advice as acted out by her radical protagonists: demand dignity and maintain your sense of self, despite how others behave or react.
Which character are you most like? Right now, I am probably most like Catherine, navigating drama unwittingly. But I hope to become more like dear Anne Elliott, floating undisturbed over a sea of drama!
Which heroine’s example do you find the most inspiring? Please comment!
Are you a child at heart? It’s awesome, isn’t it? Instead of lamenting all the books we didn’t get to read as kids, we can read everything we want – and then take a nap!
It’s good for adults to read children’s fiction periodically. It teaches us humility. To paraphrase Professor Dumbledore, age is guilty if it forgets what it was like to be young. Here are four kids books that I love and recommend. I hope you check them out!
#1. Planet Earth Is Blue
— Nicole Panteleakos
Why Read: This book invites us to examine how much the world has changed, yet how much farther we have to go when it comes to accepting differences and treating everyone as equal.
The first novels I read as a child were historical fiction. This beautiful story about 12-year-old Nova counting down to the Challenger launch has me feeling nostalgic for that time.
This story navigates serious topics including Autism and the foster care system. However, the plot focuses mainly on the relationship between two sisters, Bridget and Nova. Nova is a thinker, not a talker. Apart from her sister for the first time, she struggles to adapt to an entirely new environment.Nova is a thinker, not a talker.
Communication is examined as being diverse and unique to every person, requiring patience and a willingness to connect. Nova and Bridget have always used music and facts about space travel to communicate. As they share an increasing anticipation for the historic launch, Nova draws closer to her classmates and community.
#2. The Secret Garden
— Frances Hodgson Burnett
Why Read: Be reminded of the natural connection we have to our environment and all living creatures. Not only children, but humans of every age, can experience rebirth and discovery!
Mary Lennox finds herself newly an orphan and sent to live with an uncle who is a stranger to her. She is thrown into quite a new world. Not an unpleasant world, but one with strange folk with rather interesting ideas: The English moor is a beautiful place. A robin bird makes a loyal friend. A smile makes a face look nice!
But the strangest idea of all begins with the mysterious crying in the night and a doorless garden which seems to inspire a certain magic! The Secret Garden is a beautifully written story of redemption and the power, found within all living things, to grow and change.
“Is the spring coming?” he said. “What is it like?”… “It is the sun shining on the rain and the rain falling on the sunshine…”
—The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett
#3. Dragon Rider
— Cornelia Funke
Why Read: Return to the basics of fantasy reading! Recall the first dragon you ever met in a book. Root for unlikely friends and their quest to overcome evil!
Firedrake is a young dragon who sets off on a quest to find the acclaimed Rim of Heaven after learning that his home–and all the dragons that live in it–are in grave danger of a man-induced flood that will destroy their home.
We learn that many friendly magical creatures exist, but few trust humans. Can a dragon, a brownie, and a human boy survive a quest for the fabled haven? Or will they fail to save the last of the silver dragons from a heartless monster?
The fantastic voice of Brendan Fraser brings a great range of characters to life in this audiobook!
#4. The Mary Poppins Collection
— P.L. Travers
Why Read: Lets remind ourselves that childhood is a state of mind, and adulthood is just a trick played on us when ordinary life takes over!
The Mary Poppins Collection centres around the Banks family of 17 Cherry Tree Lane and their adventures with their on-again-off-again nanny. She is Elegant, Stylish and Proper. I’d follow her “to the stars and back!”
Mary Poppins leads the children to and from jarringly unreal places to meet odd and fascinating folks within the terribly normal setting of London, England. The thrill is in the contrast between the average and the uncanny! Somewhere, squashed between the tedium of weekly errands and the scent of fresh-baked gingerbread, is proof magic exists.
Believe it or not, I read all of these stories for the first time as an adult. And I loved them! True of many examples of children‘s lit, the lessons and imagery are all the more potent because they are written to appeal to youthful sensibilities.
Do you have a favorite children’s book that you first discovered as an adult, either on your own or with the kids in your life? Please comment below! Thanks for reading!
Guys, I might’ve gotten carried away diving into fictional worlds and overshot to outer-space. Brain melting. Can’t stop spinning. 💫
Translation: I discovered an author who writes exceptional young adult fantasy, sci-fi and adventure. And she has four series already completed – sparkly and new! Am I dead?!😵
Ena of Ilbrea Series
“Ember and Stone” is where it all began for me. It was actually included in a free trial combo called “When Worlds Begin”. Before I knew it, I’d binged all the way through the Ena Of Ilbrea series. The suspense pulled me onward as the plot unfolded. Assassins. Spies. Magical abilities.A powerhouse woman with snarkiness for days! Best of all, each character came alive in the brilliant dialogue. 🤩
Mood: Do you want a strong female main character? Still in the realm of YA, but exploring more mature themes? An immersive and cutthroat series with hidden magic, forbidden love, and rebellion?
Girl Of Glass Series
Exhausted and obsessed, I immediately found another series from the Megan O’Russell. “Girl Of Glass”, a coming of age story, features a slightly younger protagonist. Nola and her pure heart are infinitely dear to me! She’s a member of a privileged class, living in protective Domes, which makes for an intriguing dystopian perspective. We’ve got teen drama, betrayal, vampires, zombies – you’ll love it!
Mood: Do you want a high-stakes plot, in a futuristic society where climate change and disease ravage humanity? Oh, and a love triangle? If you loved the Divergent series by Veronica Roth (which I did) then you’ll get into this adventure!
Heart Of Smoke (Book #1)
I was dying of fantasy-adventure overload. OF COURSE I fangirled about it!! Megan saw my review on Instagram, or my blog, and reached out to suggest her new series. Wait. WHAT?
That’s right, the Heart Of Smoke series follows Lanni, a teen from the exploited class in the same world as Girl Of Glass. The characters, including the stubborn Lanni, are just as powerful and compelling! 😍
Mood: Do you want a fast-paced, grim tale about the bitter, angry citizens whose lives mean little to nothing, and a secret plot to exact vengeance? If you enjoyed clenching your teeth through James Dashner’s The Maze Runner, I think you can handle it!
Lanni works in one of the factories run by The Incorporation, supplying the Domes. She takes care of her sister, often stealing and lying to protect young Mari. Even their own mother has secrets. Suddenly, it seems, Lanni and Mari are offered a one-way ticket out of the burning hole they call home. How can they leave their mother?
Every moment is tense with fear and danger. Lanni is poised to play along with whatever elaborate plan keeps Mari breathing. But doubt creeps in as we race toward the end of book one. Who is really pulling the strings behind Lanni’s rescue?
Help! I can’t choose! 😅
Heart Of Smoke was fast-paced and intense! That cliff-hanger, though!! It’ll be over a week (April 22, 2021) before the new sequel, Soul Of Glass, is released. I’m so psyched up, maybe I’ll read book one again! 😂
Alternatively, I have another YA series by O’Russell called The Tethering. Magic? Check. Teen angst? Check. Romance? Goodness, I hope so!
So, the options are to read Heart Of Smoke again, binge a new magical series…or continue to drift aimlessly through nothingness!
Eventually, I’ll choose one and savour the adventure! Authors like Megan O’Russell are real treasures. What’s the last series you discovered that collapsed your whole freaking universe? I’d love to know!
If this is the first you’re hearing about autism, you’re gonna want a little more detail! I hope to share some useful resources to promote awareness and acceptance.
Why acceptance? A neurological difference, like autism, is a lifelong condition. Since it is NOT a disease, awareness is not enough. We need to encourage society to include and to accept autistic people.
Today, I’d like to recommend a few autistic content creators, suggest great books, and debunk a few myths. Here goes!
What is autism? Autism is a neurological condition. It means the brain functions in different ways to the typical brain. Metaphorically, you could compare it to two different operating systems that do the same job in different ways.
What is masking? When a person does not understand the social behaviour of others they “mask”, or imitate, those around them to blend in. Examples of masking include hiding autistic behaviours, ignoring one’s own physical and emotional needs, and speaking from a practiced script.
Traits (not symptoms) – Autistic traits are directly related to neurological differences and therefore can vary widely, from sensory sensitivities to communication difficulties; from intense focus to intense empathy.
“On the spectrum” – The autism spectrum represents myriad traits, challenges and strengths which occur in autistic individuals. A spectrum is often used to describe two polar opposites like “Blue is cool, but on the opposite end of the spectrum, red is much warmer.” But the autism spectrum is more like this image below!
Neurodiversity – A term referring to variation in the human brain regarding sociability, learning, attention, mood and other mental functions. Diversity is key to humanity’s success. Yet too many autistic people are unemployed or struggling.
If you’ve read one book about autism, you’ve read one book about autism. Whether it’s a fiction or non-fiction book, it’s inadvisable to base our understanding of autistic people on just one book!
That said, plenty of books offer valuable info about the history of autism and neurodiversity. Even fiction can offer insight into cross-sections of the autistic experience! Here are my top three favorites (non-fiction).
Neurodiversity, a term that should be self-explanatory, has been a reality throughout human history, even before “scientist” became a word, and before psychology and neurology were even a concept!
Steve Silberman is a journalist who studies the world through inquisitive eyes! I can feel his excitement—his intense curiosity— with each step towards the truth. His passion for people permeates these 12 chapters which read like essays. He weaves historically significant events together with fascinating narratives about people whose efforts have impacted the journey to understanding.
Women on the spectrum have long been overlooked. There is hope for the future! These brave authors share their stories to illuminate the struggles autistic people often face. Their hard-earned advice will benefit women (all genders, really!) who are diagnosed later in life.
Check out the Not Neurotypical Podcast where Laura Zdan shares her journey to discovering her autistic identity as an adult.
This is an easy but educational read about autism from a scientific perspective. Temple Grandin is an autism activist and engineer. She has a deep interest in neuroscience too, so we benefit from her knowledge and experience in this valuable book. Learn about the different types of “thinkers”- which are you?
“Neuroanatomy isn’t destiny. Neither is genetics. They don’t define who you will be. But they do define who you might be. They define who you can be.”
If you have read this whole post – wow, thank you! It is so important to consider the many unique views and experiences of neurodiverse people. This April, let’s listen to autistic voices. Let’s ask ourselves, what is required for acceptance in our society? I’ll leave you with this quote,
“Viewed as a form of disability that is relatively common rather than as a baffling enigma, autism is not so baffling after all. Designing appropriate forms of support and accommodation is not beyond our capabilities as a society, as the history of the disability rights movement proves. But first we have to learn to think more intelligently about people who think differently.”
NeuroTribes: The Legacy Of Autism and the Future Of Neurodiversity by Steve Silberman
Are you sharing about autism this month? (Let me know where to find your content!) ❤️
Can you recommend fiction with autistic representation?
Is it just me, or does now seem like a perfect time to read some post-apocalyptic sci-fi? No? Just me? Anyway…
I have three YA dystopian series’s at the top of my to-read list, so why not binge them all? Time for Bookdragon feast! First, we have Ernest Cline’s debut Ready Player One, along with its surprise sequel released in November 2020. Next, The Hunger Games trilogy by Suzanne Collins, which I have often considered reading. Finally, by fantasy author Megan O’Russell, the four-volume Girl of Glass series.
What makes an impactful dystopian story? It’s a paradise-gone-wrong, cautionary story. A dystopian society is both dehumanizing and terrifying! The scariest part is knowing it could happen to us! Environmental decline and bad government hit us close to home. My favorite plots involve advanced, problematic technology! I also look for oppression. And a climactic fight to overthrow tyrannical control (of course).
Ready Player One & Ready Player Two
by Ernest Cline
In 2044, the Internet has been succeeded by the Oasis, a virtual reality universe with every distraction imaginable! Its inventor, Halliday, has died. To hunt down an heir to his fortune, he has laid out clues throughout the Oasis — the ultimate treasure hunt.
While billions of people seek Halliday’s Easter Egg, Wade Watts is going to school. A parentless, penniless teen, he has yet to legitimately join the hunt, however he has spent every free moment studying the clues! Will Wade’s obsession with Halliday’s maze-like mind pay off?
An elaborate quest. There’s a fantastic level of world-building involved in setting out clues and solving puzzles with high stakes! I had the most fun while Wade fine-tuned his theories – especially when he realized he’d need a little help. It wouldn’t be such a cool quest if one guy could conquer it alone!
Online friends. Friendships develop in the Oasis, the kids never having once met in real life. And they’re beautiful connections based on common interests and shared experiences. I can relate, having grown to love many of my good friends online. (Shout out – love you guys! ❤️💚💛💙)
Nostalgia. Pop-culture references, (like Serenity from Firefly!) trigger warm-fuzzies in any fangirl. The culture-obsessed Wade shares a million fun facts about 80’s trivia and video games. The social awkwardness that accompanies his fixation is so extremely relatable.
Exposition galore. Repetition and a lack of pacing means we the reader must be very patient to get to the meat of the story. Wade’s narration of events is cynical yet humorous. But you might get a little sick of his “voice”. (Not to be confused with audiobook performer Wil Wheaton’s voice which is just lovely, bless him!)
Unnecessary sequels. In 2011, RP1 pleasantly surprised readers with an ode to nerd-culture. Nine years later, a sequel! We wondered, would it be a gift for Spielberg, best fit for film? Could it be that Cline actually spent the intermediate years developing his clumsy prose in order to advance his dystopian world, along with young Wade and crew? Answer: nope. Cline leans into his wheelhouse for RP2, barely developing anything further in this half-formed attempt at forced creativity.
FUN FACT: Cline isn’t the first author ever to spit out an unnecessary sequel! Did you know that The Giver was the first of four in a series that no one seems to have read? Yikes!
The Hunger Games & Catching Fire & Mockingjay
by Suzanne Collins
Years after war ravaged the population, The Capital Of Panem instated a tradition. An annual Games would be held, each district yielding a boy and a girl to participate in a televised fight to the death.
Katniss Everdeen is a teen from the mining district. She has learned to hunt to save herself, her mother, and her sister from starvation. Mostly, she blocks out the rest of the world. If she didn’t, she’d have to think about the odds of being chosen for The Hunger Games, which rise every year. Is she strong enough to stand and face those odds?
Politics, politics, politics. Panem leaders over-feed and excite the Capital citizens to quiet their voices. I appreciated the references to historical Roman gladiators who were likewise pulled from the mud and painted to entertain the masses.
A complex resolution. Um, to avoid spoilers I will just say that there’s no switch to flip a dystopia to utopia! Or from battle to peace. Or to make trauma okay. Collins writes gut-wrenching reality. It’s compelling YA that coaxes us into harsh adulthood.
Relics of a long-lost culture. ‘The Hanging Tree’, like ‘Oranges and Lemons’ in 1984, was a song referencing tragic events that had since been rooted out of the nation’s collective memory. These intensified the deep yearning for a better world.
Disturbing images. The “mutts” (that’s all I will say on that!) I admit, I avoided reading The Hunger Games for a long time, despite all the hype*. A battle royale with children did not intrigue me. What can I say? I prefer governments that systemically crush their citizens without all the spectacle!
*But in this case, the hype is merited! The writing, the character depth, the stakes. The beautiful writing!
Oblivious protagonists. I totally understand that the protagonist, Katniss, was basically still a kid. She was intensely conflicted as her family’s stoic provider struggling to survive under Panem’s thumb. However, she flip-flopped between impulsive rebelliousness and coldly playing the “game”. Her ignorance of other districts and her lack of imagination were unbelievably frustrating!
Girl of Glass & Boy of Blood & Never of Night & Son of Sun
by Megan O’Russell
The world has fallen. Humanity is barely clinging to life. Its only hope – The Domes. These protect the healthy from illness, shelter the crops from the burning heat and acid rain… and they keep the others out.
Nola is reeling from the recent loss of her best friend. She is expected to follow in her agriculturist mother’s footsteps, an important career within the domes. But when Jeremy brings news of monsters in the streets, Nola struggles to reconcile life in the domes with the reality outside them. What will her uncertainty end up costing?
Normalized horror. We expect insensitivity from a government working toward a greater good. But there’s an even more disturbing transformation at an individual level, when survival means being numb to the fact that the privileged thrive while the majority suffer.
Morally grey characters. O’Russell does not just pin two perspectives against one another. Within each warring faction we find disagreement, varying levels of compassion, and complex motivations. The vicious, the callous, the charismatic – all draw their own line between right and wrong.
Literal monsters. Genetic manipulation. Experimental “cures” that warp humanity into something other. What does it mean to be human? What does it mean to be a monster, for that matter?
A bleeding heart. More than the usual noble protagonist, heavy on justice and self-sacrifice, the bleeding heart is complex and volatile. The author must somehow preserve and toughen this character’s essence. No one fits this description better, inspiring action and sacrifice, than the authentic Nola Kent.
Continuity issues. I had to search hard for something to really hate, and this is a small-ish thing. But the “Domers” need a medication to filter the polluted air anytime they go outside. The later books just sort of stop mentioning it and that annoyed me.
While I did binge through all three series’s, I just didn’t connect to all three the way I did with Girl of Glass. I honestly couldn’t be more pleased with Megan O’Russell. It’s as though she took several well-planned ideas and wove them into a progressively hopeful, death-defying journey!
My sentimental self wants to say one more thing. That the piece of my soul I once lost to Jonas of Lois Lowry’s The Giver has now come to rest on Nola, my new symbol of all that is good and pure! 🖤
More YA TROPES…
The “nice guy” who isn’t really a nice guy. Won’t say which book did this best because SPOILER.
Overcoming addiction/substance abuse is an important issue that YA books especially should address very seriously.
The Chosen One trope. What makes them the one? Circumstance? A special skill? Society?
Not every dystopian series will be impactful. Some fall flat, failing to develop past the climax of their revolution. Some delve deep into a fantasy world, twisting dark themes until we question our own reality. (I just realized The Hunger Games and 1984 have this in common!)
The best, although based on a fictional struggle, will inspire faith in humanity. We’ll carry noble characters with us all our lives. An impactful YA dystopian is one whose victories over adversity become our own.
…but most of all, an impactful dystopian series leaves you wanting more. Because humanity is defined both by hope and uncertainty!
Thank you for reading! 🖤
How do you feel about dystopia in books and films? Have you enjoyed the film adaptations? (Ready Player One, The Hunger Games, etc.) Should YA always have a happy ending?
Werewolves howling at the full moon, trapped somewhere between human and beast. The appeal is foreign to me, although I do acknowledge that Remus Lupin of the Harry Potter series is a hero, an inspiration and the best teacher of all time! But…aren’t werewolves usually bad guys, feral, hungry and hunted?
To answer this question, I have scoured my e-reader, and Goodreads, and Google for the top choices in werewolf lit! I discovered a wide range, from unimaginative teen romance to grim-dark supernatural thrillers. From the wild wolf to the hybrid wolf-man monstrosity. And finally, I found a niche in the genre for a bookdragon like me!
Anna is an unforgettable protagonist. She’s a breath of sweet sunshine, scrappy and kind. And shattered. We don’t just pity her or admire her, we become her. After surviving isolation and brutality, the relief and residual unease of escape is staggering! Despite the brutality of wolf life, will Anna accept the loyalty, the love, of a healthy “family“?
A developed world. Patricia Briggs was a top result when I embarked on my werewolf hunt. She’s set up an immense urban fantasy world spanning multiple series. As a reader, I appreciate that the history and lore is woven seamlessly into the plot. I sought an enticing series packed with action and intrigue, and I’ve struck gold!
I hate violence. But I also understand it’s necessary to an extent for a thrilling plot. Fighting enemies who are willing to kill, and defending loved ones, will result in injuries – or worse. In ‘Cry Wolf’, we focus less on bloody mess and more on the mental fallout of trauma. It’s actually brilliant. So, I hate nothing!
Intense romance.I define romance as a character actively trying to fit someone new into their life, whether or not they end up becoming partners. Werewolf lore often involves imprinting, where mates are bonded in an all encompassing devotion. This is only romantic, in my opinion, if both werewolves have agency and interest in figuring out the new relationship. When they do, it’s compelling!
Want a standalone with powerful young women battling werewolf stereotypes? You must read Phased! The characters are endearing, infuriating, flawed and brave in this YA fantasy. A seemingly average school incorporates human and were students with apparent success. But they’ve never met anyone like Lyla and Val.
Sisterly bonds. Val and Lyla are together, and that’s what they focus on. Not the years they were forced apart while interned at the facility. Although many students at their new boarding school fear the girls, they are not as alone as they expected to be. Alternating perspectives reveal a snarky, sweet and raw relationship.
Over-dependence on the alpha trope. Briefly, the alpha is a boss wolf. Betas naturally follow the alpha. Omegas are lone wolves, basically exempt from the wolf hierarchy. Pack status does play a clear role in the story, but I seriously doubt a school could remain standing with so many alphas in one building! Also, complex personalities should factor into whether an alpha werewolf garners respect from “the pack”.
Dystopia. A broken society with science fiction elements. A world in which werewolves, though commonplace, are subject to prejudice and discrimination. I. Love. This. The elaborate settings and medical technology drew me in. Toxic language such as “feral” and “assimilation” had me clambering for reform.
All Bryar Rose really wants is to study Ancient Egyptian papyri and hang out with her rebellious bestie, Cinderella aka Elle. But a recurring dream – the one with a wolf and a sexy guy – may mean she’s in danger! She’s going to need all of her teenage sass and martial arts skills to survive her eighteenth birthday.
A real, live girl. Yes, Bryar will need the help of her magical friends, including a gruff werewolf named Knox who melts her heart. But she’s no damsel. Her hopes, interests, ideas and beliefs are present throughout the story. There’s doubt, shock, mistaken confidence. She is so much the over-sheltered teen with a rebellious streak, I want to give her a hug and buy her some french fries!
Basic descriptors. Authors, if you’re only going to describe the main character as having “blue eyes and brown hair” then why bother? There are a zillion hair types and body types and attitudes to feed us an image of your character. I want to know what about this young woman demands my attention. And that had better not be the hue of her hair. That said, these characters had sass for days, so I’ll temporarily overlook the dull descriptors. End of rant.
It’s about the magic. Underneath the friendship, family dysfunction, fledgling romance and petty crime, the main theme is magic. Magicians hide their abilities like the gems in their unassuming sport coat pockets. Shifters mask the golden gleam of their eyes as they slip out of the city to take animal form. And fairies. Well, fairies are divas, clever, resourceful and fond of drama. A disastrous mix!
These are my three favorite werewolf novels! Not only do I need to know what’s next for the characters, but I’m invested in their worlds. Could Bryar and Elle be destined for high school high jinks? Will there be a sequel to Phased? What other forms of shifters will appear in Patricia Briggs’ other books?
I also enjoyed comparing transformations! Do you like your werewolves more canine or monstrous? Relatable or insatiable? I was surprised to find that I enjoyed both – the more natural wolf form in ‘Cry Wolf’ and the fiercer biped form in ‘Phased’. It turns out the struggle with an inner beast is exciting and compelling. I can’t help but love a werewolf story!
Do you have a favorite werewolf?
Can you suggest another great book or series about shapeshifters?
Hello, there! I hope you have lots to read. I sure do, more than a Bookdragon could read in a year. Not that I should brag about my hoarding tendencies…but I do want to brag about three of my bookish treasures!
The problem with reviewing books is that I love each and every one for unique reasons. It’s tough! Hey— what if I tell you exactly what I love and hate about my treasures? You can judge the value for yourself and perhaps find new treasures for your own hoard.
Titus Fogg is a normal high school student. At least that’s what he keeps saying to himself. But is it normal to be suspected of murder? Or to argue with your pervy shadow? Or to enjoy algebra? At the very least, he’d like to keep the m-word out of things, given how magic has ruined his life so far!
Tess Roe loves scary films, soccer, and the ancient library where her mother works crazy hours. When she meets the new kid, Titus, she’s aware he’s weird, insane and possibly homicidal. She senses something more in him, however, and soon she’s sucked into his world of Wyrd with no way out.
Characters with weaknesses. Trust issues. Callousness. Pig-headedness. Prejudice. Titus lacks social skills, but is a mathematical genius. Tess has anger issues, but oozes compassion. Can two substantially flawed kids turn their weirdness their advantage? Or will evil overtake them before they can figure out they need each other?
When the point of view changes between several characters!When executed well, the switch between POVs heightens suspense while illuminating relationship dynamics.
Terrible editing. I sincerely hope there’s a better edited version out there. Spelling errors like loose instead of lose and a misused word or two, like sympatic instead of sympathy, kept me from losing myself in the magic!
Mystery. I enjoy guessing, figuring out the characters and their motives. We’re given nothing more about Titus, Tess and their families than is necessary to follow the plot. As the reader, I felt respected. I trusted that every gory, unexpected event was leading to a big reveal!
Sylvia Baker is musical. Music should be the antithesis of depression, but not in her case. Her summer was punctuated with a visit to an in-patient care facility. Her very young single father is a recovering addict. Sylvia struggles with his local fame and her own loneliness.
Her life is about to change when Sylvia meets a dark stranger. Suddenly inspired, she realizes how important he is to her journey as a musician—maybe even to her as a person. Is music the cure? Can she balance her obsession with the flighty Vincent, her new friends, her band, and her dad’s sobriety?
An emotional artist’s view of her craft. Music is my favorite subject for an art-fueled novel! It’s magical, mythical, how music connects thought and feeling; draws folks of all different experiences together. In ‘We Own The Sky”, Art with a capital A is described as an almost supernatural motivation. And yet, the most basic of human emotions are deeply imbedded in musical expression.
Grab your headphones and breathe in Sylvia’s playlist as she meets her Muse, exploring new avenues of herself and bringing us along for the ride. Flying, falling, grieving, transforming— it’s all experienced through the concept of music. 🎶
Interesting side characters. The more great characters the better, I say. The sensational personalities in Sylvia’s life include Travis, a self-assured and gifted lead singer, Vincent, a dejected and intense loner, and Mariella, a spunky Muse with poor punctuality!
Brushing mental health issues under the rug. It’s absolutely amazing when a character fights their demons, accepts help, and pulls out the other side having learned to trust. That being said, it’s dangerous when an author portrays mental health in a misleading way. To be very honest, I found this attitude triggering.
Sylvia lies about taking her meds. She lies about returning her therapist’s calls. And she lies about her suicide attempt. I kept waiting, waiting, waiting for her to realize that it was okay to get help. Worse, the fantasy element is used to explain book’s dismissive attitude toward treatment.
When the main character realizes she fits in after all! You know I am all for angsty, no-one-gets-me, lonely-punk-teenager tropes. But even better than that? Our lonely-punk-teen finds a friend group! She opens up to new experiences and personalities! She finds she belongs! Real life, right there. We all belong somewhere.
Apollo. The Greek god of the sun, music, and being mega hot! *poses for photo op*! Being immortal makes a person have a big head, it’s not Apollo’s fault he’s amazing! *flashes a blinding grin* But according to daddy Zeus, that recent situation with the half-bloods was his fault. Big time. And his punishment is way unfair: mortality.
Apollo finds himself un-amazing, in the mortal world, hoping a little girl will save him! What he really needs is a few half-bloods to accept the great honor of questing for him! Unfortunately, he’s got a lot to learn about mortal life. Turns out he doesn’t know much about demigods, either.
Mythology in modern day. As the fans of the Riordanverse well know, being a demigod is dangerous business! Humans remain cheerfully oblivious, while monsters and other ruthless mythical beings tend to make life suck for people like Percy Jackson. Did I mention that Olympus is atop the Empire Stare Building in NYC? No one adapts Greek lore into trage-larious adventure like Rick Riordan.
Un-relatable main characters. I’m drawn to books with great character development. That means a character has to be fully formed, flawed, and functional before the events of the story take place. I’m not sure Apollo counts by this description. Can he even improve himself as a (former) god among men?
Tying in characters from previous storylines.Hey, Percy! Missed you, man. I enjoyed catching a glimpse of several other favourites from the series Heroes of Olympus. Will Solace, son if Apollo, is one of them. He’s a skilled healer at Camp Half-Blood. Friendly and easy-going, Will is the ideal tour guide for his disillusioned dad.
All three of these books boast realistic city backdrops with uncanny twists on magic and mythology—top-tier Urban Fantasy. In reviewing these beauties, I have very intentionally avoided contrasting them with popular works of the same genre. Reviewers love to say “for fans of Harry Potter” or “for fans of Twilight” or “for fans of Percy Jackson”. But I say, let’s give new stories a chance to be special on their own merit! Thanks for reading. 🖤
Have you enjoyed any of these books/authors? 💎
Would you like more Love/Hate/Like reviews from me? ❤️
I started the year with goals because I love an excuse for a fresh start! Mainly, I decided that this year should have a bookish direction. I wanted to read with purpose, which prompted the following aims.
Read books from my bookshelf!
Read more non-fiction!
Choose a short list of absolute-must-reads!
Explore children’s books that I never read as a kid!
Don’t these sound wonderful? So, I wrote up my little list, proud and excited to get it started. I wasn’t doing badly at all – and then the world went sideways. I hope this Tag will help me assess my reading goals, and my progress so far! Here goes.
After reading A Curse So Dark And Lonely, I wanted the sequel so badly! But I’d have to wait six months. Once I finally had a copy on my Kindle, all thoughts of other books vanished! I fell into the story of Lia Mara, her sisterhood, her inner conflict… her enigmatic new ally, Grey. Although it wasn’t what I expected, I loved it!
Irene is a spy. For a secret library. She is skilled, and she loves her career, even on its worst days. Like when she has a trainee shadowing her the same day the Library’s safety is threatened. I was psyched to find out this series has 7 volumes! Speaking of which, ebook 2 just became available… thanks, visible library!
So, the world went sideways, and I just wanted to read a fun, familiar adventure!
#12 Most Beautiful Book You’ve Bought This Year
Mary Poppins 80th Anniversary Collection by P.L.Travers
Yes, it is an ebook. But the illustrations are magic!
#13 What books do you need to read by the end of 2020?
I’ll be disappointed if Ihaven’t read these by the end of 2020:
Anne of Green Gables series by L.M. Montgomery
The Hunger Games series by Suzanne Collins
The Lord of the Rings series by J.R. Tolkien
The Heroes of Olympus series (re-read) by Rick Riordan
I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou
Alice In Wonderland by Lewis Carroll
So, I’ve decided that I’m on track with my re-reads, and YA/children’s stories! I’m excited to discover the classic fantasy genre. And, as a fan of dystopian reads like The Maze Runner and Divergent, I hope I’ll enjoy Suzanne Collins. Are any of these books on your list?
A bookdragon toes the line between love and greed. Do we admire all that glitters? Yes! Do we devour it all? Nope, because we’d bury ourselves under mounds of books and be trapped for all time.
But today is special! My newest book hoard perfectly matches my bookish mood. I will take a very short break from reading to show you these beauties!
“He lay back on the low stone wall, knees pulled up, and stretched out his spine against the rock. The bird song pierced the early-morning air in little shrieks that hammered at his very skull.”
Change is inevitable in Chawton, a village sorely struggling after the war. Former resident Jane Austen still plays her part in the village goings on—at least, her novels do! A love of reading Jane Austen ties various characters together, transforming lives and subverting expectations.
Having read this novel together with my book club, I’m so grateful I can relate to Mimi, Adam, and the others! Jane inspires me to live authentically, to laugh at absurdity, and to rebel against society!
“Finn Mallory’s tie felt like a fancy, expensive noose. As he climbed the steps of Wharton Academy, an exclusive school that serviced the elite who could afford a hefty tuition, he loosened it with one hand and pushed open the doors to the school secretary’s office with the other.”
16-year-old Finn owes it to his parents to attend boarding school, after all, he is the reason they died. Among posh subjects and clubs, he learns of a secret society presenting the opportunity to travel through time…but at what cost? The Time Trials bend and break the grieving teen, testing fragile friendships along the way.
Why Time Travel? It was a fantastic backdrop to the reconciling of psychological effects of the past and the present. (And I’m 100% here for the mysterious, steam punk-fantasy vibes!)
Boarding school can be lonely. Despite challenges, four teens draw support from one another. Most nostably, roommates Finn and Edison form a fast friendship. With little in common, Finn’s determined kindness and Edison’s loyalty grow a deeper empathy between the two young men.
Autism representation: This was a different representation of neurodivergence than I’ve seen before in fiction! Finn works to better understand his new friend’s autistic experience. Edison proves a patient listener. I hope they return in book two!
“The epic road trip of my dreams features two bags of junk food, one awesome girl, and ample music. No murders.”
Xander’s life is about to begin! Graduation pending, he’s planning the best summer ever with his besties Jill and Tucker. One thing—one person—could destroy it all. Xander faces his trauma as his new life—new girlfriend, new college—suddenly falls under the black shadow called Gary.
Xander is a witty, intelligent character. Normally, I avoid very dark themes like abuse, but I had a feeling about Life Before. It is now on my short list of favorite books! It’s about surviving, healing, self-awareness and self-esteem.
We need books about surviving because everyone eventually needs help but finds themselves isolated, overlooked. We need to see friends and families pulling together to save one another.
This is a lesson I also gleaned from a Harry Potter fan fiction I read recently: A Marauder’s Plan! An Alternate Universe re-telling wherein Sirius saves Harry by taking on the entire Wizarding World was everything I never knew I needed. Apart from being a well-plotted and imaginative re-telling, the story was emotionally compelling. International travel, collaboration, magical mental health solutions and political subterfuge, plus the small matter of an undead dark lord—you know what, just read it!
“When I was seven, I thought I moved a pencil with my mind.”
Anything is possible for Desi Lee! At least, she finds this to be the case in academia, sports, and even in her family life. Love should not be difficult after all she has been through, including the loss of her mother. Despite her determination, carefully crafting her flirting technique based on K-dramas may have unexpected results.
Yes, the theme of this month is clearly: grieving children! I read the first page and was hooked immediately. Like Desi, I had confidence in my own abilities throughout childhood (just not telekinetic, or long division)! But, as looming adulthood collapses our sense of self, it is time to dig deep and discover our personal flaws.
“Elin woke to the sound of the door opening. It was not yet dawn.”
Elin and her mother keep apart from other villagers. Her mother cares for the kingdom’s arsenal of water serpents. When a deadly plot lands Elin alone and in danger, she discovers powerful truths about her family, the serpents, and herself!
Magical creatures, anime vibes, Japanese culture? I hope so! I’m so excited to have found this highly rated e-book for a great deal!It was translated to English, so I’d like to watch the anime in Japanese (with English subtitles) afterward.
I’m off to read!
I feel a deep emotional openness allowing me to submerse myself in these fraught narratives. I’ve read three of these five books so far. Therefore I will continue my adventures, and I will update you soon as to whether my big ol’ heart is satisfied. ❤️
Also, I need to share these epic posts from book bloggers I very much admire! (I’m steaming with envy!!!) 📚